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Kellie Lee Owen

Kellie Lee Owen

Kellie  is a writer, an Energy Therapist and a work in progress.  She inspires her clients and readers to get really clear about their thinking.  "Our thinking creates our reality.  Think well, live well. "

Sex in Relationship

Sex in Relationship

Tue, Feb 23, 2010

If you believe all the hype about gay and lesbian sex life, you probably did a double take at the title of this article. But really, sex is vital to a healthy, happy, balanced Relationship.

Healthy Same Sex Relationships 101

Healthy Same Sex Relationships 101

Tue, Dec 01, 2009

What is your idea of perfection? Is it even realistic?

Gay and Lesbian Relationship Renewal

Gay and Lesbian Relationship Renewal

Sat, Jan 30, 2010

How do you make your relationship better?

Like It or Not, Your Mother-in-Law Is Your Partner's Mom

Like It or Not, Your Mother-in-Law Is Your Partner's Mom

Fri, Apr 23, 2010

So is your father-in-law. Have you considered Father's Day this month?

The Jealousy Issue

The Jealousy Issue

Tue, Apr 27, 2010

Not a Cheater

Be the Best Mate You Can

Be the Best Mate You Can

Tue, May 25, 2010

Sometimes our partners drive us to near insanity. You feel as though this is the very last thing you can take before you have to be committed, either for being certifiable or for murder.

Living with an HIV-Positive Partner

Living with an HIV-Positive Partner

Wed, Jun 23, 2010

Living with an HIV-Positive partner can be challenging if you let your fear run your relationship.

Working the Laws of Attraction

Working the Laws of Attraction

Wed, Jun 23, 2010

Many of you have been consciously working the Laws of Attraction, while others allow the Laws to rule them.

Romancing Your Partner

Romancing Your Partner

Sat, Jul 24, 2010

Romancing your partner can be as simple as a pizza and a walk, or as complicated as finding ten dancing girls for an orgy....X

Finding Mr./Ms. Right

Finding Mr./Ms. Right

Sun, Jul 25, 2010

Having trouble finding Mr. or Ms. Right? It might have to do with how you think.

Monogamy:  What does it really mean?

Monogamy: What does it really mean?

Wed, Sep 01, 2010

Marriage is a contract between you and your partner. If you have both agreed to monogamy, then any violation is considered a breach of that contract.

Why Can't I Walk Away?

Why Can't I Walk Away?

Thu, Aug 19, 2010

No matter who ends a relationship, such separations always affect you in good and bad ways. The question now is whether you're still in love or just jealous.

The Face of You

The Face of You

Sat, Sep 25, 2010

"For Gay Men Only" was one of the most popular sections of 10,000 Couples' first year. No doubt this "Halloween" observation will create its own list in the new year.

POLL: IF YOU HAD THE CHOICE

POLL: IF YOU HAD THE CHOICE

Tue, Sep 21, 2010

If you had the choice to be gay or straight, what would you choose? I have clients who say they would not choose to be gay if given the choice. They would not necessarily choose to be straight, but they would choose not to be gay.

OK, Gay Lovers, Stop Fighting!

OK, Gay Lovers, Stop Fighting!

Wed, Oct 20, 2010

I cannot take any more. We have been together for six years and even did a commitment ceremony last year to help us stop fighting, but for the last two years or so, it is one big long fight.

What Is Love?

What Is Love?

Sun, Oct 24, 2010

Love is not expressed through nor experienced by the mind. Love comes directly from the heart.

Tis the Season of Hope . . .

Tis the Season of Hope . . .

Fri, Nov 12, 2010

The holidays bring many of us closer to our families and mates. They offer us a sense of belonging and security. However, for some, it is a season to be endured rather than celebrated. It is a season of loneliness and depression.

Holiday Spending . . . BALANCE!!!!

Holiday Spending . . . BALANCE!!!!

Wed, Nov 24, 2010

Our money needs to find some relationship balance this holiday.

New Year Resolutions: Making Them Work

New Year Resolutions: Making Them Work

Tue, Dec 14, 2010

How do we stick to our New Year resolutions when all willpower is gone?

This Year I'll Get a Mate

This Year I'll Get a Mate

Fri, Dec 31, 2010

In my late 20s, I knew I was not ready for a relationship, so I dated extensively, usually just a few times per man. Much more than a couple of dates and I was in over my head.

Who Runs Your Relationship?

Who Runs Your Relationship?

Mon, Jan 31, 2011

Who is in your relationship? Well, there’s you and your mate and maybe your parents and in-laws, maybe an ex with children or your adult children, and then . . .

What Happens When You Feel Stuck

What Happens When You Feel Stuck

Mon, Jan 31, 2011

Throughout our lives, we will encounter problems which appear to have no solution. So, what can you do as a free-thinking, positive-focused individual?

Learn to Love Unconditionally

Learn to Love Unconditionally

Tue, Mar 01, 2011

Learning to love unconditionally requires you to first love yourself in the way in which you wish to be loved.

Can Same-Sex Relationships Really Last?

Can Same-Sex Relationships Really Last?

Tue, Mar 01, 2011

The divorce rate for straight couples is approximately 50%. That means half of all straight marriages will end in divorce. What is the divorce rate for same-sex marriages?

The Perfect Mate for Same-Sex Couples

The Perfect Mate for Same-Sex Couples

Fri, Apr 01, 2011

What is the problem, your mate or your ambitions? Learn to love your mate for who she is instead of who you thought you wanted her to be.

Keep Your Same-Sex Marriage Connected

Keep Your Same-Sex Marriage Connected

Fri, Apr 01, 2011

A relationship, like the biological process of evolution, can only flourish with the right environment and sustenance.

Did I Really Just Say "No"?

Did I Really Just Say "No"?

Thu, Dec 01, 2011

If the Universe responds to your thoughts and feelings, what are you telling it you want more of?

Mother Issues Impact Gay and Straight

Mother Issues Impact Gay and Straight

Sun, May 01, 2011

Mother’s Day is a time of torture for some of us as we are forced to spend time with the woman at the root of our neuroses, relationship issues, and failures.

A Mother's Day Gift for All Concerned: Forgiveness

A Mother's Day Gift for All Concerned: Forgiveness

Sun, May 01, 2011

What Mother’s Day gift for Mom would also be the best gift to give yourself – and maybe your mate as well?

Dear Mom and Dad, I Am Gay.

Dear Mom and Dad, I Am Gay.

Fri, Jul 01, 2011

I helped a friend write this letter to his parents and have his permission to share it. It should be shared.

You ARE the Master of Your Life

You ARE the Master of Your Life

Mon, Aug 01, 2011

Do you know what you want? Really?

Honor and Love Born from 9/11

Honor and Love Born from 9/11

Thu, Sep 01, 2011

Love is necessary to our very existence, like oxygen. We cannot live without it.

Do You Know Grace?

Do You Know Grace?

Thu, Sep 01, 2011

In search of a life once again united with life and a self reconciled with self. Including "Amazing Grace" -- video by LeAnn Rimes

Same-Sex Relationships: Micros of the Macro of the Universe

Same-Sex Relationships: Micros of the Macro of the Universe

Sat, Oct 01, 2011

Is your relationship the perfect paradigm of your connection to the Universe?

What Do You Have to Be Grateful For?

What Do You Have to Be Grateful For?

Tue, Nov 01, 2011

Gratitude rituals can change your life.

Sex and Communication for Same-Sex Couples

Sex and Communication for Same-Sex Couples

Tue, Nov 01, 2011

Leaving you panting for more is one thing; just leaving you panting is a whole different deal altogether.

The Little Gay Elf

The Little Gay Elf

Thu, Dec 01, 2011

Something sweet for the Christmas holiday.

New Year's Resolution: Finding My Ideal Mate

New Year's Resolution: Finding My Ideal Mate

Sun, Jan 01, 2012

What gays and lesbians are looking for in a 2012 love life

Believing in Miracles

Believing in Miracles

Sun, Jan 01, 2012

Do you believe in miracles? Are you scheduled for a miracle in 2012?

Death Made Her Love Me

Death Made Her Love Me

Tue, Jan 31, 2012

In the '60s, being gay was something you chose, or at least acting on being gay was a choice.

No Lover on Valentine's Day?

No Lover on Valentine's Day?

Wed, Feb 01, 2012

Celebrate V Day like a crazy person!

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